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~"I used to think that finding the right one was about the man having a list of
certain qualities. If he has them, we’d be compatible and happy. Sort of a
checkmark system that was a complete failure. But I found out that a healthy
relationship isn’t so much about sense of humor or intelligence or attractive.
It’s about avoiding partners with harmful traits and personality types. And then
it’s about being with a good person. A good person on his own, and a good person
with you. Where the space between you feels uncomplicated and happy. A good
relationship is where things just work. They work because, whatever the list of
qualities, whatever the reason, you happen to be really, really good together. ~
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